Where Art Thine Truth?

I want to write about everything. But most importantly I want to help enlighten what is dark. I want my readers to benefit from what I have to say, so that you can have a better understanding about love, lust, and how to go about handling the different situations around them.

I am a man.

Men are dogs.

We will look at ladies all the time.
And NO ladies, trust me, you do not want to know what we talk about AT ALL. It's disgusting, hahaha.

Have you ever seen a female dog on heat? She rubs her privates all over the place.
If that garage gate opens up, watch how she will run out and fuck the first dog she finds, 
(I read that somewhere though. I'm not that bad-ass, lol).
The same sort of applies to men.

Yes, a man's greatest fear is being cheated on. You'll be surprised to hear that actually the same does not apply for the other gender.
Women are way too much of complex creatures to have this as their biggest fear. 
Women are more afraid of ending up alone.
A life without children, without a family to call their own, that's what really scares women. To them, happiness is family. 
But for a man it's different. 
"There is no evil angel but Love"- for a man, nothing can be truer.

“Hey babe, should I take the blue cupcakes or the red ones?" Sally asked Dave indecisively.
“Uhmmmmm, the blue ones look good, babe” said Dave hastily.
“But I love the red ones, Dave, you know this”.
"So then take the red ones, love?" Dave mumbled.
"You care about nothing, you have no interest in anything EVER".

Stop.

Do you think lovely Sally broke down just because of cupcakes? I think not.

Guys voice their thoughts and opinions most of the time. Women however, they love keeping shit in, and that's when they snap about cupcakes.

Communication is the key to a successful relationship.
Even the smallest most minute things should be discussed with your significant other.

If Dave likes blue cupcakes, he'll take a blue one.
But Sally, on the other hand, is too concerned with what Dave's opinion on the cupcakes will be. While Dave is enjoying the blue cupcake, Sally will be thinking about what the choice of blue cupcakes says, and will want to know Dave's opinion on it, (only because she cares about Dave).

With women, they build and imagine situations and scenarios in their head based on the future they desire. Using this, they will base their answers and responses to scenarios and apply it to a current romantic situation in the hopes of achieving that desired outcome. It's a bit much to take in, but try and read it slowly to see if you understand what I mean.

All women are guilty of this habit.

Women tend to over-think things they really don't need to be dwelling on, because as I said, women are much more complicated.
When this happens you need to reassure your lady that she is part of your future plans and that she is your heart and soul. All that women want is recognition that they are not taking the leap of faith alone. Just remind them all the time that you guys are in it together. Because often the situations and scenarios they picture in their heads are right.

In all honesty I think it takes longer for a guy to get over a girl he was really in love with than it does for a girl to get over a guy.

Guys being the ones who "love" less or "give" less in a relationship is a primitive thing.
They take longer to get over a relationship because they were never fully invested in the first place; but by the time they realize this, it will have been too late. Perhaps the girl has already moved on, or perhaps their pride and ego won't allow them to back down and go crawling back to the woman.
Of course in this situation, it's possible that the roles could be reversed, where the women has too much pride to go back as well, but majority of the time, I'd say it's safe to put the fault with the guy.

Females move on quicker and it's not their fault.
Their natural ability is to give their all, that is why they are such emotional creatures. When they love, they love wholeheartedly.
They give their all towards a relationship and it's exhausting.
So when the relationship does end, the female party can move on quicker. It has exhausted her mind and heart too much, so she will let go.

The woman in the relationship will always hold a special place in her heart for that guy and will try her damn hardest to make it work, because that's what women do, they care. But she can't keep allowing herself to be hurt, so she has no choice but to move on.

Subconsciously all these processes take place; decisions made on natural instinct, primitive traits. Once we understand the subconscious, we'll be able to understand the heart.


Soul mates often find each other searching for the same destiny. That's why certain religious people stay together, they long for the same fate and wish to walk upon the same path.

“Seduce my mind and you can have my body. Find my soul, and I'm yours forever.”'

Seduction' is the key word when it comes to love.
All a girl needs to do is know what your assets are.
Dress according to YOU.
Body language and how you carry yourself is of utmost importance. Obviously you'll need to throw some sexy in there.
When it comes to eye contact, ladies, please be the first one to break it, otherwise you'll end up looking desperate.

I have a friend, let's call him Tom Ford. *I don't pop molly, I rock Tom Ford*
He's a crazy mother-fucker. Ladies man, super chilled. He and I are cut from the same cloth. 
(I am also sort of in love with Tom's sister, Stephanie. Just thought I'd put that out there, Tom).
After a weekend of partying, there's always one girl trying to rape Tom, hahaha.
Please love, DON'T be that girl.

Ladies, you guys need to be the person playing hard to get. But you and I both know this isn't always the case now, is it?
Let him chase after you, don't be the one's chasing because men like a challenge.
Where's the challenge and fun for the dog when the ball is dropped directly in front of him?

Tom has serious swag. With good looks and packing an extremely good conversation, it's easy to see why women are all over the guy.
But in this Game of Thrones, Tom and I both know it's not about looks.
This is where normal guys can beat Tom at his game and end up getting the girl.

In order to keep your woman happy, you need to engage her mind.
Intellectual men usually hold relationships longer. There's a reason for that.
You need to seduce her soul, touch her heart.
You need to sustain her from within.
She needs to be mentally satisfied, and sexually too of course (which counts for a lot more, honestly).
You need something greater than love.
You need be that guy that nourishes her soul from deep within.
You need to make her laugh and tell her that she's beautiful all the time.
You need to mend her heart from the past heartbreaks.
You need to be THAT guy.

But I'll leave you with a saying which I think is something you should keep in mind: "The biggest coward is a man who awakens a woman's love with no intention of loving her".
So if you are aiming to be THAT guy, don't be a douche.

Although I say men are dogs, there is a reason why you ladies do still love us.
Yes, men are dogs, but dogs are also man's best friend.
Loyal; always there; always alert; ready to protect.

Although we do tend to be animals, we also know how to take care of what's important to us.
Make us realize you're too important to lose, and we'll be there by your side, guarding and protecting for as long as we can.

But that's it for now...Mi línea de pensamiento ha pasado - my train of thought has passed.